10 Subtle Signs His Feelings Are Real

It’s no secret that women have an easier time (generally speaking) expressing their feelings than men do. While, of course, there are exceptions — women often look to men’s actions for insights into their thoughts.

Here are some of those actions that signal strong emotional feelings for you:

1: He spends real quality time with you.

These points are in no particular order, but this one does serve as the foundation for all of the rest.

I say this because, if a man isn’t putting in real effort to make real time for you, nothing else listed here is going to matter.

Even extremely busy people can find time for what’s truly important to them into their schedule. It could just be getting a coffee, or a quick drink after work, or bringing you flowers on your birthday — but in person is the only way to construct a solid and stable foundation for a future together.

We can text, and talk, and video chat all we want, but there is no replacement for real “face time.”

2: He values your opinions.

Men seek out the opinions of people they admire and respect. This isn’t just about considering you in the decisions he makes — which is another good sign — but actively asking for (and listening to) your input when he’s trying to make one of these very decisions.

A cornerstone of love, is trust — and trust shows up to the party with respect as its plus one. When you respect someone’s input and opinions, you listen to and absorb them.

If you don’t…well, you know the rest.

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