“I don’t want to have a baby. I want to live in San Francisco and go to graduate school there,” my wife told me.
This was news to me. After 2 months of marriage things were not going well. They hadn’t been going well for a long time. It was naive of me to think getting married would fix those problems.
At the beginning of our relationship, I told her I wanted to get married and have a house and family. Initially she said she wanted the same. I’m not sure when that changed but San Francisco was what she wanted now.