Lesbian dating is like playing chicken, at least for me.
Both parties have to run at each other, and it’s less about who flinches last and more about smashing into each other; it takes two-sided proactiveness.
The pandemic did a number on everyone’s social scene and social abilities. I emerged from my apartment after literal years with the realization that the foundations of my queer scene had been weakened, and I had to throw myself out there if I wanted to be the best lesbian I could be. I had to look around and ask, “Where are the lesbians hanging out in San Francisco?