You may not think much of using terms like “resources” rather than “people” or “I” vs “we” but at a subconscious level these words start to infiltrate our minds. For both the person using them and those hearing it.
Perhaps you’re thinking, ‘I have tough skin’ or ‘I don’t mind when people use these terms’ but even if that’s true, that’s not the case for everyone and it sets a tone. It influences the fabric of culture.
As the old adage goes: “‘Watch your thoughts, as they become your words; watch your words, as they become your actions.”
Choose your words wisely
A great exercise you can do here, which I’ve done personally and regularly when I work with leaders, is to create a ‘green vs red list’.
The idea being:
- Red list = words you will agree to use less often
- Green list = words you will try to use more often
Photo of a ‘red’ and ‘green’ list that my colleague Stephen and I created with the leadership team we were working with at the time.
Create this list, put it up on the wall and make a committed to change the way you speak.
This is exactly what this leadership team did (pic above). They made it visible for everyone to see and held each other accountable to it.