I’ve lived as a digital nomad for six years. And during that time, I’ve enjoyed the privilege of visiting dozens of countries while working remotely. I make my own hours, spend all day writing, and earn enough money to pay my bills. But, I’m starting to realize that the digital nomad lifestyle isn’t sustainable long-term.
Why? I’m exhausted and feel like a perpetual tourist. Whenever someone asks where I’m from, I don’t know how to respond. Is it where I feel happiest? Is it the country listed on the front of my passport? Or is “home” the place where my friends and family reside?
I naturally assumed moving back to my hometown in southern England would solve my problems. However, it didn’t take long for me to experience a psychological phenomenon known as reverse culture shock.
Everyone’s life in my hometown was the same as when I left. But travel molded me into a global citizen — because I adopted various habits from cultures around the world. So, when I tried to readjust to life in the UK, it felt like I had arrived in a foreign country. Robert Black’s explanation of reverse culture shock therefore sent chills down my spine as it spoke to me on a deeply personal level:
“When you travel overseas, the locals see you as a foreigner. But when you return, you see the locals as foreigners.”
The truth is I don’t know where “home” is right now. I long for the days when I can create a happy life with my girlfriend. I can’t wait to play fetch with our Dachshund in the park, start a family together, and make lifelong friends with our neighbors.